{"id":618,"date":"2017-03-02T09:59:13","date_gmt":"2017-03-02T07:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=618"},"modified":"2017-03-02T10:11:23","modified_gmt":"2017-03-02T08:11:23","slug":"arkadaslariyla-iyi-gecinemiyor-mu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=618","title":{"rendered":"Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla \u0130yi Ge\u00e7inemiyor Mu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla, bilmi\u015f konu\u015fmalar\u0131 ve olgun tav\u0131rlar\u0131yla yeti\u015fkinleri \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131rken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise sorunlarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kamaz ve ba\u015fka bir tutum sergiler. Her \u00e7ocuk \u00f6zellikle okul hayat\u0131na ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arkada\u015f bulmakta zorlanabilir. Ancak arkada\u015flar\u0131 oldu\u011fu h\u00e2lde onlarla iyi ge\u00e7inemiyorsa ve bu durum s\u00fcrekli olarak devam ediyorsa ortada \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken problemler olabilir. Bu nedenle sizler i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun arkada\u015flar\u0131yla iyi ge\u00e7inememe nedenleri aras\u0131nda olabilecek durumlar\u0131 derledik.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6Z G\u00dcVEN\u0130 EKS\u0130K OLAB\u0130L\u0130R<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6z g\u00fcveni eksik olan bir \u00e7ocuk hem aile i\u00e7inde hem de d\u0131\u015far\u0131da arkada\u015flar\u0131yla iyi ileti\u015fim kuramayacakt\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015f edinebilmesi i\u00e7in sosyal yetilere ve ileti\u015fim becerilerine ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu beceriler ise aileden gelmektedir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6z g\u00fcveninin artmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ona evde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sorumluluklar vermenizi \u00f6neririz. Herhangi bir konu hakk\u0131nda fikrini al\u0131n veya ona yapmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir g\u00f6rev verin ve bunu tamamlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onun kendini iyi hissedece\u011fi c\u00fcmleler kurmaktan \u00e7ekinmeyin. B\u00f6ylelikle \u00f6z g\u00fcveni artan \u00e7ocuk, ileti\u015fimlerinde de daha yap\u0131c\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>ROL MODEL\u0130 K\u0130M?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcklerinde bile ailelerindeki bir ki\u015fiyi rol model olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. O ki\u015fi aile i\u00e7i veya akrabalardan biri olabilir. Rol model ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015finin ili\u015fkilerini g\u00f6zlemleyen \u00e7ocuk onun gibi olmak isteyebilir. Bu da arkada\u015flar\u0131yla iyi ge\u00e7inememesine neden olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>AYNI ANDA B\u0130RDEN FAZLA DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130KL\u0130K<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar ayn\u0131 anda, birden fazla ciddi de\u011fi\u015fikliklerde ileti\u015fim sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fayabilirler. \u00d6rne\u011fin ba\u015fka bir \u015fehirden ba\u015fka bir \u015fehre ta\u015f\u0131nmak birden fazla de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi de beraberinde getirecektir. \u00c7ocuk hem arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan, hem okulundan hem de \u00e7ok iyi bildi\u011fi \u015fehrinden uzakla\u015facakt\u0131r. Bu da adaptasyon sorununu ortaya \u00e7\u0131karabilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u00dcY\u00dcMEK TEK BA\u015eINA YETERL\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz her y\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcyor ve v\u00fccudunda birtak\u0131m de\u011fi\u015fiklikler oluyor. Bu durum, ergenli\u011fe ge\u00e7i\u015f s\u00fcrecinde daha da belirgin bir h\u00e2l al\u0131rken arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimini de etkileyebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u0130NLEMEK<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla iyi ge\u00e7inemeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00f6ncelikle dinlemeniz gerekir. Dinlemekle bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar bile \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenebilir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu dinlerken kelimelerinin aras\u0131nda neyi anlatmak istedi\u011fini de anlaman\u0131z gerekmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar ebeveynlerine her \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k anlatmayabilirler.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla, bilmi\u015f konu\u015fmalar\u0131 ve olgun tav\u0131rlar\u0131yla yeti\u015fkinleri \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131rken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise sorunlarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kamaz ve ba\u015fka bir tutum <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=618\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":416,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[73,120,62,45],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v17.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimi hakk\u0131nda bilgiler verilmekte ve velilere tavsiyelerde bulunulmaktad\u0131r.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=618\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla \u0130yi Ge\u00e7inemiyor Mu? 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