{"id":421,"date":"2015-02-18T10:05:31","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T08:05:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.okulistik.com\/?p=421"},"modified":"2015-02-19T17:04:15","modified_gmt":"2015-02-19T15:04:15","slug":"is-hayatinizda-cocugunuzun-yeri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=421","title":{"rendered":"\u0130\u015f Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Yeri!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131yla annelik hayat\u0131n\u0131 bir arada ya\u015famak zorunda kal\u0131yor. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile aralar\u0131nda baz\u0131 ileti\u015fim kopukluklar\u0131 meydana geliyor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan annelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir geli\u015fme g\u00f6stermesi i\u00e7in baz\u0131 noktalara dikkat etmesi gerekir. Aksi h\u00e2lde bir tercih yapma noktas\u0131na gelinebiliyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fum mu yoksa kariyerim mi?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ile aran\u0131zda her durumda iyi bir ileti\u015fim olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Evde birlikte ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz vakitler sizin i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli. \u0130\u015ften eve geldi\u011finiz zaman, birlikte yemek yerken ve yemekten sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuza vakit ay\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ak\u015famlar\u0131 televizyon veya bilgisayar ba\u015f\u0131nda olmak yerine \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla sohbet edebilirsiniz. Televizyon ve bilgisayar gibi teknolojik aletler ki\u015fileri daha pasif bir h\u00e2le getirerek aralar\u0131ndaki ileti\u015fimi kopar\u0131yor. Bu nedenle evde birlikte daha fazla vakit ge\u00e7irebilmeniz i\u00e7in bu tip teknolojik cihazlar\u0131 daha az kullanmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin. Birlikte daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irebilirseniz hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuz hem de siz daha mutlu hissedersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Hafta sonlar\u0131n\u0131 beraber de\u011ferlendirmek i\u00e7in planlar yapmay\u0131 ihmal etmeyin. Birlikte sinemaya, tiyatroya gidebilir ya da y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kabilirsiniz. Bu tarz etkinlikler d\u00fczenleyerek hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla daha fazla vakit ge\u00e7irmi\u015f hem de \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sosyal geli\u015fimine katk\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f olursunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Anneler \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bir su\u00e7luluk duygusu i\u00e7erisinde olabilir, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile az vakit ge\u00e7irdikleri i\u00e7in kendilerini bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hissedebilirler. Bu su\u00e7luluk psikolojisi y\u00fcz\u00fcnden baz\u0131 anneler ak\u015famlar\u0131 eve gelirken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na gereksiz hediyeler almak gibi davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyebiliyorlar. Ancak bir s\u00fcre sonra bu bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line gelerek ne anne ne de \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir anlam ifade etmiyor. Bunun yerine \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za zaman ay\u0131rman\u0131z daha do\u011fru bir davran\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z vaktin kaliteli bir \u015fekilde ge\u00e7mesi iki taraf i\u00e7in de en k\u0131ymetli hediyedir. Hediye alarak mutlu etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine onlara sevginizi g\u00f6sterin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz ile duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131n ve onlar\u0131n da sizinle duygular\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in f\u0131rsatlar yarat\u0131n. B\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla olan ileti\u015fiminiz ve mutlulu\u011funuz artarken, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ve i\u015finiz aras\u0131nda bir tercih yapma kayg\u0131s\u0131ndan da kurtulmu\u015f olacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131yla annelik hayat\u0131n\u0131 bir arada ya\u015famak zorunda kal\u0131yor. 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