{"id":408,"date":"2015-01-29T09:48:44","date_gmt":"2015-01-29T07:48:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.okulistik.com\/?p=408"},"modified":"2015-01-29T09:48:44","modified_gmt":"2015-01-29T07:48:44","slug":"cocuk-ve-rekabet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=408","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk ve Rekabet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Rekabet (L\u2019emulation), kendilerinden a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 kalmamak ve onlar\u0131 ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in, ayn\u0131 konumda, ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olanlar\u0131 taklit etme hususundaki e\u011filime denir. \u00c7ocukta rekabet duygusunun uyanmas\u0131, taklit ve benlik e\u011filiminin belirmesinden sonra ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Okul hayat\u0131nda yahut evde \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in rekabet ortam\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7li olarak yarat\u0131lmas\u0131 baz\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 da beraberinde getiriyor. Motive etme ama\u00e7l\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcp olu\u015fturulan rekabet ortam\u0131 ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 i\u00e7in i\u015fe yarasa da uzun vadede zararl\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Rekabet ortam\u0131n\u0131n getirdi\u011fi bir\u00e7ok zarar sayabiliriz ancak rekabetin verdi\u011fi en \u00f6nemli zarar \u00e7ocukta de\u011fersizlik duygusu yaratmas\u0131d\u0131r. Rekabet ortam\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun de\u011feri ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na ve di\u011fer insanlara g\u00f6re belirleniyor. Halbuki, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun de\u011feri kendi de\u011ferleri ve kimli\u011finden dolay\u0131 belirlenmelidir. Rekabet ortam\u0131nda kazanan \u00e7ocuk kendini de\u011ferli ve \u00f6nemli hissederken ayn\u0131 zamanda yerini korumak i\u00e7in strese giriyor, \u00f6te yandan kazanamayan \u00e7ocuk da kendini s\u00fcrekli de\u011fersiz hissediyor ve bu durum ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa yol a\u00e7\u0131yor. Bu husus \u00f6\u011frenmeyi engelleyen sebeplerden birisi olarak son zamanlarda s\u0131kl\u0131kla e\u011fitimcilerin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Rekabetin oldu\u011fu bir ortamda sevgi de\u011fil, yarg\u0131 ortam\u0131 olu\u015fur. S\u00fcrekli yarg\u0131lanan veya yarg\u0131lanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek hareket eden \u00e7ocuk mutsuz ve huzursuz olur. Burada as\u0131l yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken \u00e7ocu\u011fun gayretini art\u0131rmakt\u0131r. Gayret etmek rekabetin aksine daha olumlu sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furur. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla rekabet etmek yerine bulundu\u011fu konumdan daha iyi bir konuma ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in gayret g\u00f6stermesi \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun daha iyi yerlere, daha mutlu ve huzurlu bir \u015fekilde gelmesini sa\u011flar. Ayn\u0131 zamanda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 kal\u0131c\u0131 olur. Amac\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmekse \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile rekabete de\u011fil daha iyisini yapmak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba sarf etmeye y\u00f6nlendirin.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar di\u011fer insanlar ile de\u011fil kendileri ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. 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