{"id":262,"date":"2014-12-20T14:06:34","date_gmt":"2014-12-20T12:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.okulistik.com\/?p=262"},"modified":"2014-12-20T14:11:04","modified_gmt":"2014-12-20T12:11:04","slug":"cocuklarin-gelisiminde-arkadasligin-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.okulistik.com\/blog\/?p=262","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Geli\u015fiminde Arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00d6nemi\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal geli\u015fimi ailede ba\u015flar ve okul hayat\u0131ndaki arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri sayesinde geli\u015fir. Ailede verilen e\u011fitimin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri de gerek \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterinde gerekse sosyal hayata adaptasyonunda b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. Arkada\u015f ili\u015fkilerinin ba\u015flamas\u0131yla beraber \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011fun benmerkezci bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fir, hayata ba\u015fkalar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da bakmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar \u00e7o\u011funlukla ayn\u0131 cinsiyetten arkada\u015flar\u0131 tercih ederler ve bu durum toplumdaki yerlerini benimsemelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Tercih ettikleri arkada\u015flar d\u00f6nemsel olarak de\u011fi\u015fse de \u00e7ocuklar genellikle kendileriyle ayn\u0131 cinsiyette olan, benzer ki\u015filik \u00f6zellikleri ta\u015f\u0131yan, ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde duygusal ve sosyal olgunlu\u011fa sahip \u00e7ocuklarla arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurarlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir arkada\u015f grubuna uyum sa\u011flamak ve bu arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrecek sosyal becerilere sahip olmak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun olumlu benlik alg\u0131s\u0131 geli\u015ftirmesini sa\u011flar. Olumlu benlik alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fmesi karakterini sa\u011flam temeller \u00fczerine oturtmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri, ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131nca nelerin kabul g\u00f6r\u00fcp g\u00f6rmedi\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenmeleri a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da \u00e7ocuklara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Duygusal ve sosyal geli\u015fimin temellerinden biri olan arkada\u015fl\u0131k, \u00f6nemli bir beceri olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Hemen hemen her \u00e7ocuk ge\u00e7ici ya da s\u00fcrekli olarak arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinde sorunlar ya\u015fayabilir. Bu sorunlarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilmek b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 sorunlarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilme yetene\u011fini geli\u015ftirir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 problemleri ebeveynlerin m\u00fcdahalesi olmaks\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6zmesi \u00f6z g\u00fcveninin geli\u015fmesine sebep olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ebeveynlerin Yapmas\u0131 Gerekenler<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fim s\u00fcreci i\u00e7erisinde kuracaklar\u0131 arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinde ebeveynlerin de rol\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerine kar\u0131\u015fmaktan olabildi\u011fince ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n. Kendi kendine ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frenmesine izin verin ki sosyal becerileri geli\u015fsin. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her sorunda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm arac\u0131 siz olursan\u0131z hayatta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 problemlerde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretemeyebilir. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kurdu\u011fu arkada\u015fl\u0131k kayg\u0131lanmas\u0131na sebep oluyorsa, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkiliyorsa ona destek olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal geli\u015fimi ailede ba\u015flar ve okul hayat\u0131ndaki arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri sayesinde geli\u015fir. 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